Vocabulary from this VDO
“Gratitude” (Noun) = grateful > the feeling or quality of being grateful.
- deep / eternal gratitude
- sent them a present to show/ express gratitude
- take this as token of my gratitude for all your help
“Filial” (Adjective) of son or daughter
Filial piety
the idea that parents, grandparents,, and older people should be trated with honour and respect.
- filial duty/ respect/affection
- at least Jamie recognised some filial bond
Guilt is ingrained since childhood, leading to sending money back to support parents.
“In Thai society, ‘respect’ entails honouring those in higher positions, adhering to societal rules, and showing reverence to elders and others in the community. It also involves speaking politely and behaving courteously towards others in all situations. This quality is valued and promoted in Thai education and communities.”
Ideas from this VDO:
- Thai people have the mindset that “having children early means they will grow up in time to take care of you.”
- The first paycheck should be given to those who raised you.
- All the expenses that parents have spent on you must be repaid when you grow up.
- Whether you give a little or a lot, it depends on what you have—give a little if you have little, give a lot if you have more.
- Some families don’t pressure their children, but society makes them feel pressured.
- Filial piety is seen as a duty, not a choice.
- Conflict between generation to raise a child
- The new generation of Thai people has more savings to take care of themselves than the older generation.
- “we’re not in the same generation”
- The social structure in the past was not conducive to self-care in old age.
- The social context regarding filial piety is driven by fear.
- When people are afraid, they seek something to hold onto for a sense of security.